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Call a Thing By Its Name

Buried deep within the bowels of Chasing the Wind are the comments section, where most of the time it seems to be the place where you can disagree with me. Sometimes y’all agree with me, sometimes you don’t.

On a recent post, I made the observation that the view toward abortion has become more commonplace, more cavalier, a lifestyle. I cited a study for the basis of my opinion, and included a partial transcript from an abortion contest on a radio show.

I’m not sure why some think that’s controversial; Planned Parenthood makes millions of dollars off of abortions every year, and the Democrats have a woman’s right to have an abortion in their party platform. If anything, “cavalier” is too mild a word. There are some I see in the news that go beyond that, almost to the point of encouraging women to get abortions. Planned Parenthood needs the dough.

Sean expounded on the need to resist softpedaling; a true anti-politically-correct message that needs the light of day. It cried out for the front page, so here it is:

Call a thing by its name.

Softpeddling the truth is not much good, and allows people to make morally bankrupt decisions – but they feel good about it. “Therapuetic cloning” for example. What a nice way to say it, don’t you agree?

Other examples spring to mind, such as “Freedom of Choice”, “unviable tissue mass”, “Pro-Choice”, “Progressive”, “Reproductive Rights”, “Woman’s Health Issues”.

Why is it that the Inuit have so many names for snow? Because it is important to them. In a similar manner, I think that the Pro-Abortion crowd keep throwing words up on the wall to see if there is a better way to describe the killing of babies, that can make people feel good about their actions – its important to them.

So, now, brand me as a man, right wing wacko, member of the patriachy, gender biased radical sect, and that label allows you to ignore my position. These words are simply straw men.

While I don’t mean to offend, and I support all that we can do to prevent abortions by preventing pregnancies through abstinance, I cannot retreat from the true meaning of the action. Abortion is the murder of children by their parents, it is infanticide. The Western world since pagan times has not allowed this to be seen as morally right. To think otherwise, is simply to fool oneself into a morally unacceptable act.

“What is Truth?” and herein lies the problem. Truth, if it is variable, or able to be twisted and re-defined by cultures, or people (“that’s your truth”) has no value. Meaning, that without the guidance of truth to steer by, you have no moral path, no test of faith upon which to base action, and thereby you accept feelings as a substitute to compunction. That’s a long winded way to say the culture’s equivalent: If it feels good, do it.

Shame, compunction, feeling bad about bad decisions all have served humans well. It is the whispered voice in your heart that we all should listen to. It’s just easier to overlay the voice with platitudes that appeal to our animal nature: BUT WHAT ABOUT MEEEEEEEEE????. The soul, however starves on platitudes. It needs the sunlight of truth in full measure. This, in my simple belief if why the culture accepts this horrible act, and is more concerned with the feelings of those who commit it, than it is with the innocent victims.

Somewhere, we have gone horribly wrong, when wrongs are called right and right things are called wrong. – don’t you agree?



27 responses to “Call a Thing By Its Name”

  1. Yes, and where we have gone wrong is in making people so ashamed of having sex that they deny they are doing it, to the point of not planning to prevent pregnancy.

    Why do you think the U.S. has such a high abortion rate? We aren’t having more sex – we’re having more unprotected sex.

    Recently, a pregnant high school student was barred from walking the stage to accept her diploma simply because she was visibly pregnant. Yet the father of the baby was allowed to walk the stage. Obviously, having sex is fine as long as it doesn’t SHOW.

    Never mind that this girl chose to continue her pregnancy – exactly what the pro-life crowd claims they WANT to happen. Never mind that despite her pregnancy she worked hard and completed school. Nope, she should be ASHAMED of herself. The girls who got pregnant and aborted got to walk the stage. What message do you think is being sent here?

    And you have to ask where we went wrong?

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  2. Having sex outside of marriage is a shameful thing. Having sex within marriage is not and it creates babies (in both cases).

    “Unprotected sex” in your sense is another word for fornication. It again is shameful and morally wrong.

    for·ni·ca·tion ( P ) Pronunciation Key (fôrn-kshn)
    n.
    Sexual intercourse between partners who are not married to each other.
    Word History: The word fornication had a lowly beginning suitable to what has long been the low moral status of the act to which it refers. The Latin word fornix, from which fornicti, the ancestor of fornication, is derived, meant “a vault, an arch.” The term also referred to a vaulted cellar or similar place where prostitutes plied their trade. This sense of fornix in Late Latin yielded the verb fornicr, “to commit fornication,” from which is derived fornicti, “whoredom, fornication.” Our word is first recorded in Middle English about 1303.

    Damn those etymological dictionaries.

    Yes, and I agree with you that the young lady should have been allowed to march across the stage for a diploma. However, she should be ashamed of her bad choices and proud of her good ones, as we all should be.

    And, I suppose we went wrong in part when we taught our daughters that sex could be had without consequence.

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  3. I don’t think we’ve ever taught our daughters that sex could be had without consequence. But apparently we’re teaching them that the only consequence that matters is the one that shows in public.

    By the way, sex outside of marriage has not always been a shameful thing, even in Western civilization and even in the Bible. What was shameful was if the sex resulted in pregnancy and the man refused to take the woman for his wife. Even the Puritans held this view, and they’re generally held up as the…we…most Puritanical of examples.

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  4. And as an aside – why the heck can’t we edit our comments? I hates typos, I really hates them.

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  5. Yeah, I know, I would like to edit as well. I had a withering reply to hurl at you (lovingly of course) and I deleted about six paragraphs with one wrong key. Of course, maybe I fell asleep and thought I wrote it.

    In Xanadu did Kubla Khan
    A stately pleasure-dome decree :……

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  6. Back to your post.
    Well, hmmm, yes the main consequence, of opposing sex outside of marriage is, of course pregnancy, which shows in public and thereby the child that results from it. Sons should be taught the same thing of course, its just that the cosmic way things are is that women carry the baby. They also have the final say about intercourse (otherwise its called rape and a crime). So, life is not fair in this regard to the female, but hey, males die younger, fight wars and lose their hair. We have to deal with what we are dealt.

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  7. Puritans supporting fornication???

    Show me some Cromwell, baby.

    Or, at least Calvin.

    Cheers.

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  8. What? You expect me to back up what I say? 😉

    Here’s a link, a bit vague, but it gives the gist. http://dohistory.org/diary/themes/pregnancy/index.html

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  9. At this point, Jo, the only solution to the national high birth rate is to have compassion. I suspect that won’t lower the abortion rate, though. Did you have another suggestion?

    I’ll look into the editing thing. I suspect you have to register a user name and I have to bump up your security level to edit, but it’s too late tonight to tackle that project.

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  10. Don’t be disingenuous. The solution lies in options. And options must be communicated. Closing down the lines of communication from the start is non-productive.

    Although I do find it odd from a Christian perspective that you seem to be arguing against compassion. Isn’t compassion the starting point for pretty much any Christian action?

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  11. I don’t argue against compassion. In fact, I have a lot of compassion for the innocent unborn in this discussion.

    I don’t see how a “solution that lies in options” is going to save babies, either.

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  12. Where is your compassion for the woman facing the decision?

    How can a solution that gives women the option to either 1) not get pregnant, or 2) not believe abortion is the best answer NOT save babies?

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  13. Regardless of my compassion for the woman, I cannot let that trump the life of the unborn. “Oh you poor, starving man. Go ahead, shoot my neighbor and take his money. You must be hungry.”

    I still don’t see any solutions from you, only opposition at my position for denouncing casual abortions.

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  14. What part of “options” don’t you get? Women have abortions because:

    1. They are pregnant when they didn’t intend to be
    2. Abortion is a more attractive option than the alternatives

    The only way to stop abortion is to:
    1. Make ways to prevent pregnancy available, affordable, and understandable
    2. Make non-abortion options more attractive

    Take the example in my first comment. Not punishing women who choose not to abort would be a great place to start.

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  15. Ah. “Make ways available.” Problem solved. By the way, abstinence is free, available, and easily understandable. No reason to practice that at the moment though when it’s so easy to get an abortion. Insurance probably pays for it, too.

    And there are a bunch of Catholic charities that will not only pay for medical care for the mother, but also help in putting the baby up for adoption. That’s free, affordable, and easily understandable, too. No sense in doing that when abortions are so readily available and easy to get.

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  16. I’m with you, Mike. Too many platitudes.

    Our point, if I may speak for Mike, is that this pregnancy did not happen (excepting rape) without the consent of the woman. You make it sound as if she stumbled into a tree and bang, pregnant – oh my, now what do I do?

    Crossing your legs works, so does saying no. The only thing you are forced to do in life is live with the consequences of your actions.

    As for making things more attractive, Mike’s right. There are other groups as well that can help. Here are two:
    http://www.gabrielproject.com/ (My church is involved in this)
    And a plug for the Lutherans:
    http://www.lutheransforlife.org/crisis_pregnancy.htm

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  17. Hey, Mike…didn’t you get all snippy with me in the other thread when you thought that I implied you believe abstinance was the way to stop abortions? So why the snippiness, when it’s the ONLY thing you’ve advocated, despite your admission that only “some people” are very good at it?

    If the help from Catholic charities is so affordable and understandable, why do you think abortion is the more attractive answer? Oh, yeah – because dealing with a consequence that actually SHOWS gets you treated like a pariah. It was a Catholic school that banned the girl from graduation, btw. Lots of compassion and understanding there. Sure, they’re willing to help, as long as they can make you ashamed of yourself for needing help.

    If you and Sean are more interested in shame than saving lives, go right on doing what you admit isn’t working. That’ll solve the problem for sure.

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  18. a) I don’t recall being “snippy”.
    b) More than just “some people” can practice abstinence. Abstinence is freely available to all and is a moral approach to unwanted pregnancies.
    c) You asked for more available and affordable “options” for dealing with unwanted pregnancies. I provided them.
    d) My point was, and still is, that society is too cavalier about abortion. You’ve not presented anything that would convince me that I’m either wrong, or that a cavalier attitude is a good thing.

    Regardless of the reason, abortion ends a life.

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  19. What’s wrong with pariahdom?

    Maybe the father should be identified publicly as well? Would that asuage you?

    Wouldn’t it make the would-be pariah want to act morally in order to not suffer the consequences?

    One Catholic School decision negates the entire Gabriel Project program? OK, what about the Lutherans?

    You’re down for the count, Jo. Shame justifies killing? You really want to go there? Our point is that the casualness has gotten out of hand, the acceptance, the cavalier attitude is wrong. How do we stop it? Mike and I wish that people would have conciousness to feel bad about it. Perhaps we are being Pollyannish about it – What do you propose?

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  20. Michael
    a) Your memory is short
    b) But not practical. And not successful. Are you interested in stopping abortion, or just going around being indignant about it?
    c) I guess I should have added “actually workable in practice”. Of course, one is not more, either. How many 25-year-old virgins do you know? What makes you think that is going to happen, when it has NEVER happened in the history of the world. People are marrying later. They are reaching sexual maturity sooner. Bad combination, and obviously the “just don’t have sex” approach is great in theory but absolutly not a solution in the real world.
    d) I didn’t say your opinion was wrong. I said that it won’t change anything. Feel free to be as offended by abortion as you want. Just don’t act surprized when nothing changes, and society doesn’t stop being “cavalier” just because you said it was.

    Sean
    “What’s wrong with pariahdom?” – It’s closing the barn doors after the horses have run off

    “Maybe the father should be identified publicly as well? Would that asuage you?”
    Why would it, since my opinion is that pariahdom is useless?

    “Wouldn’t it make the would-be pariah want to act morally in order to not suffer the consequences?”
    It never has, in the history of the human race. What makes you think it will suddenly start working now, in a society that is even less insular than it has ever been?

    “Shame justifies killing?”
    Where have I said this? Where have I, in ANY post I’ve made, said that abortion was the right or moral choice?

    This debate would be so much easier if you and Michael could simply read what is written, instead of approaching every remark as a pro-abortion rally.

    I think the difference between you and me is that I want abortion to be unnecessary, and you just want people to feel bad about it.

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  21. a) No, it’s not.
    b) You don’t have any solutions. I’m indignant that anytime abstinence is proposed, liberals nix it as unworkable. It would be more effective if society didn’t glorify sex 24 hours a day. Heck, you can’t even order a hamburger anymore without being seduced.
    c) I guess you gave up offering *any* solutions; I suppose you think abortion is a *good* thing since you oppose any efforts of looking at it as a *bad* thing. I happen to think systematic nationwide abortions for profit to be of more moral importance than a trip to the dentist.
    d) Then why the heck do you argue so if I’m right? I denounce the cavalier attitude, you apparently agree as long as I don’t actually *say* it.
    e) Jo, it’s because you sound like a pro-abortion rally. Abortion would be less necessary if abstinence was encouraged and abortion was considered a bad thing, yet you say both of those positions are wrong (then, inexplicably, you say you never said we were wrong, you just disagree anyway).

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  22. Why do you expect others to do what you did not?

    It seems you are reduced to making up arguments for me so you can have something to refute.

    I am so done trying to have an intelligent discussion with you on this subject.

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  23. Taking your brain and going home?

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  24. Nah, just taking this particular topic to a place where people are willing to listen to what is said, rather than debate what they wish had been said.

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  25. That’s fair. No doubt Sean and I are thinking the same thing about you. I think we just tried to do it without disparaging you as “stupid” on the way out as you just did about us.

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  26. Well, based on that difference I suppose that I’ll have to leave you *that* moral high ground. I suppose that all I want is for people to feel bad.

    I’m such a curmudgeon. 😡

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  27. Wow, Michael – I couldn’t have asked for a better illustration of what I’m talking about. I never called you and Sean stupid. Never even implied it. “Intelligent discussion” simply means discussion based what is said, not based on the intelligence of the participants. Brilliant people can have dumb conversations.

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